Sunday, April 18, 2010

Three month in home meeting with our home study agency

Last week we had our 3 month meeting, we had one at 1 month and will have one at 6 months also.  We will also be doing annual reports until our little bundle of joy is 18.  Our social worker said she has obviously attached to us and is doing well.  One interesting bit of information we learned is it takes about 1/2 of the time your child was alive before they entered your home, to become completely safe and secure with their new family.  Our daughter was 13 months, so half of that is 6.5 months so we are about 1/2 way there.  This is just a rough guide they use.  It breaks our heart sometimes when we dwell on how she may be feeling when she has a bad time or a bad day or night.  Its difficult for others to understand all of this, but we just have to keep on loving her and showing her we will always come back to her.  We are just crazy in love with her and cant wait to see what God is going to do in her life.

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